One thing this hobby taught me is that there is no one type of woman that fits all. What I may think in beautiful, a gentleman may not and vice versa. I also learned that not all women are turned on by the same things that turn me on. Who knew!!! We're all different and that's a beautiful thing!
One of the biggest things that turns me on is intelligence. I'm not talking about a college degree, that's just a level of indoctrination. I'm talking real intelligence. I like free thinkers, strong minds and humor. I like different points of view and out-of-the-box mindsets. Anytime I go home and research is a good date! I love stimulating conversation that challenges my mindset and beliefs. I like a man that thinks for himself, makes his own choices and can call BS when he hears and sees it.
Being treated like a lady is always a turn on. I'm not a feminist (that's a mental disorder in my world) so I'm not at all offended when a man treats me as I should be treated. I love when gentlemen open doors, pull out chairs and walks on the side of traffic. I like kindness and sincerity. I like holding hands and real conversations. Flowers and gifts are nice but their no substitution for being treated well. You can't buy that.
Make me laugh! I love to laugh, I love to enjoy life, I love to just have fun. Someone with a great sense of humor that does not hurt others is a huge turn on for me. I love creativity , uniqueness and intelligent humor.
Feed me! Although I do not require a meal for an extended date, I do love to eat! If he cooks it himself, even better!!! I've had a few gentlemen cook for me in the past. I loved it every time! A nice restaurant is good however, there's something about a delicious meal that he cooked for just us 2 that makes it more of a turn on. I love to eat and I love home cooked, healthy foods. Home raised is even better but I'm not that picky!
There's nothing more natural than humans taking care of humans. When a man is passionate about the care of his family, I see him in a greater light. Family (blood or otherwise) should always be number one. When a gentleman is talking with emotion about his loved ones it shows a gentle side that makes my heart melt. A real man takes care of his own and that turns me on!
Something that turns me off is irresponsibility. Personal responsibility takes care of 98% of our problems. Life is not fair, it's not now, never has been and never will be. Taking responsibility for ourselves regardless of who is at fault for what takes strength and emotional intelligence. An average looking responsible man with his life and head together will always be sexier than any guy with physical looks. There's nothing more pathetic than a man (or woman) that has a ton of excuses but takes no real action in their lives.
There is so much that turns me on, these are just a few. I get turned on in the hobby as much as I would in real life by certain things and turned off by others. Gossip, putting others down, drugs, excessive drinking, rudeness and ignorance are a few things that repel me. Fortunately, I don't see many of those things :)
Have a blessed Evening,
Becca