There's many things we as providers do to make sure those who bless us with their patronage are comfortable. Our comfort is very important and so is his.  I want those who visit to feel welcome, relaxed and safe. Things like using well reviewed in call locations in nicer areas, allowing for him to shower if he wants to and taking the time to chat a little, especially if he's a new friend have all been appreciated. Another way is often over looked...cleanliness. It's hard to relax and feel comfortable when you're sitting in someone else's mess. 

Through the years I've met many providers. Most have nice, clean in calls however, there's always the few that don't seem to actually see their own mess.  No one is perfect so I'm not saying anyone is better than the other.  We all have room for improvement. This is a big one for me.

When I've visited other providers, most had clean, neat places.  However, there's that few that just can't seem to get the cleaning thing down. Gentlemen do not care to see belongings everywhere, food wrappers, ash trays, etc.  When I'm in a hotel room, it only takes a few minutes to put my things away.  Even a messy girl can throw the mess into a drawer or closet, wipe off the furniture and make the bed. 

How we keep our homes or in call locations says a lot about us.  It speaks to how we care for and respect ourselves, our values and mindset.  It tells out clients how we feel about them, how much we value them and their comfort. As within so without...our messy outside environment is a sign of our own mindset. It also reflects how we keep our homes, what we're OK with living in.

I get many comments about how clean my in call is.  I put my things away, wipe up any messes and make sure things like the dishes are done and bathroom is clean. Those who bless us with their patronage will use that room to clean up...no one wants to try to clean up in a mess. The bed is always clean and neatly made.  No one want to show up to a messy bed that makes him wonder what or who was in it right before him. I'm low volume so the bed is always clean. My personal phone is shut off and put away.  My hobby phone is either shut off and put away or used for music with notifications and ringer turned off. I don't smoke so there is no dirty ashtray or stale cigarette smell. There's no left over food containers, dirty dishes or dirty laundry around. I don't live in a mess and I certainly will not rendezvous in one. 

Cleanliness starts before he arrives. The area the in call is matters.  No one wants to drive to a shady neighborhood or high crime area. It doesn't have to be an expensive neighborhood, just safe, clean and taken care of.  Make sure the in call location is well reviewed and is clean on the inside and out. If I'm going to an out call, I make sure my car is newer, clean on the inside and out and in perfect running condition, not a dirty, loud POS that draws the wrong attention from people he knows. 

I don't take deposits for regular meetings however, I do take them for FMTY or in call when I'm at home.  (I'm too low volume to keep a permanent in call) If I'm going to ask a gentleman for a deposit, I'm going to make sure the in call matches his deposit.  I've had a few clients tell me they give a decent deposit and the provider got a cheap, not so nice room and often not in a great area. I find this to be disrespectful to the gentleman who trusted a provider with his deposit.  

This may seem like just a little thing, it' really a big thing!