Link any self respecting and responsible provider, I screen all new friends and check the black list as well. Seeing someone without this just opens me up to negative experiences and that's not something I'm willing to do. Another thing I do is check my personal black list, I call it my "NO" list.  This list made up of personal experiences with the gentlemen on it. I have absolutely no room in my life for games and I don't play them.  I prefer straight-forward gentlemen that know how to treat a lady.

There a many ways to get on my "NO" list...and many more I don't know about yet.  Sometimes the undesirables can get creative. Multiple no call/no shows are one way.  I'm pretty understanding when someone cancels. I don't have a cancellation fee. Since I screen well and I'm picky about who I see I don't have a lot of cancellations. Cancelling on me is OK...we all have things come up. Just let me know and I'm good.  When we have an in call, I invest in a hotel. For any meeting I  make sure I schedule anything else I may have going on around our agreed upon on time.  A cancellation gives me the chance to cancel the hotel.  A NC/NS costs me the hotel, travel to the hotel and time getting ready our meeting.  This is aggravating.  If someone doesn't have enough respect for me and integrity within themselves to cancel, I don't give them another chance to pull a NC/NS. I will cancel if something comes up on my end, I expect the same in return.

Another common way is to talk about things that are inappropriate. Asking for a menu or certain illegal acts will get someone on my "NO" list real quick. I simply do not have these conversations for obvious reasons. Trying to talk me into things I don't offer after I say I don't offer them is annoying and super disrespectful as well as selfish.  I don't sext, I don't do Skype or similar services. I'm not on Only Fans and I'm not interested in being on there. I understand others in the hobby do that and that's just fine. To each their own. This is a part time gig for me and I really don't have the time and will to do those things. Most gentlemen respect that, those that don't lose the opportunity to see me. 

Refusing to screen may or may not get you on my "NO" list.  If someone tells me they don't want to screen, I respect that. I don't get pushy. I don't see them.  If they get pushy about it, I put them on my "NO" list. There's a small number of gentlemen that have tried to explain to me that they don't screen at all but have seen many ladies.  There's no reason I can't contact the past ladies for a reference. Refusing that after claiming to have seen many ladies without screening makes me suspicious. No one is so special they don't need to be screened. 

If there is an attempt to push my boundaries I don't see a gentleman again. We all have our limits.  I'm pretty open minded do my best to cater to his desires.  I will not do something I'm not comfortable with or do not enjoy. I'm not desperate for money or attention so I have no reason to do something that takes enjoyment away from me so someone sees me. If someone wants something I don't offer, I will let them know, I don't want to see anyone that will be disappointed with what I offer. I won't waste your time or mine.  No money is worth that as I see money earned dishonestly as dirty money and I don't want dirty money. I want him to leave feeling he had a great time and it was well worth his money and time. For me, I get the satisfaction of a job well done and adding to the happiness and satisfaction of another human being. 

Talking about other providers.  I don't mind listening to experiences or giving advice however, I will NOT share personal info of another provider. Every time I'm asked if I know the real name of a provider or where she lives or works in the mundane world or any other personal info, it creeps me out.  Is he also trying to dig into parts of me that are not his business? Why is he asking me for her info...how long has he been digging?  When another provider shares info with me I have a responsibility to keep it private...the same when a client shares info with me. I've earned trust in this hobby by being trustworthy. I'm not a source of info for those looking for info they don't need. 

Drugs. I have never done drugs and I'm not interested in starting. I'm not a party girl. I don't need to be intoxicated to enjoy my time with a gentleman. I'm single in real life and very low volume. I look forward to our meeting just as much as he does. I will end a meeting if someone shows up with drugs. I don't mind if he engages in 420 before arriving or have a few drinks while we're together as long as he's responsible and I don't end up babysitting someone who over did it. That's really not fun for me.  I'll end the meeting right there. Illegal drugs are not my thing, I'm more of a health nut. 

That's the most common ways to get on my "NO" list. It's really not a long list as most gentlemen are great people and I truly enjoy seeing them. I'm big on safety and enjoyment for him and myself. I very seldom put people on my personal "NO" list as my screening and intuition weeds them out pretty well. We all have our standards. We all choose the level of risk we take in the hobby. I prefer to enjoy gentlemen on my level.

Namaste,

Becca Blossoms