I'm grateful for gentlemen that are respectful of my time and availability.  I'm blessed as most of the gentlemen I encounter are very respectful and I return the same respect to them.  For me, I need to plan my life, know what I'm doing and keep my priorities straight. I'm sure other responsible adults feel the same.  This is the reason I do not generally accommodate short or no notice for a meeting.   

There seems to be a misconception among a small group of gentlemen that believe all I have to do is wait for them to contact me and I'll drop everything to meet them. This couldn't be further from the truth.  Like them and everyone else, I have a full and beautiful life to live.  I make plans, have relationships with loved ones and have things I enjoy doing. I wouldn't arrive in a city unadvertised on tour and expect everyone to drop what their doing to see me at the last minute.  I'm unable to do the same. I have one that keeps asking for right now appointments no matter how much I explain to him that I need at least a 24 hour notice. Another one decided to get nasty with me because I could not accommodate a 4 hour notice.  He felt that since I'm only a provider I should be ready 24/7 and jump at every inquiry. Needless to say, both these guys are on my "NO" list.  Not because their dangerous but because their disrespectful.  I don't mind someone asking if I can accommodate no notice or a short notice.  If I can make it work, I will.  Chances of me being able to accommodate are very low. 

This is a part time gig for me. I have other things in my life that need my time and attention too.  The whole misconception that providers don't have lives or should be available 24/7 is just immature, disrespectful and ignorant. We all have personal lives that should be respected no matter who we are. I'm usually good with a 24 hour notice. I also do my best to respect and accommodate the schedule of those who see me as best as I can. I will not disrespect my own personal responsibilities and commitments for anyone and you shouldn't either.

I truly enjoy the hobby and being a single woman, it fulfills some needs for me as well as those who bless me with their patronage. I'm a mature, sober, responsible woman with a wonderful life. The hobby is just a fraction of my life. I will enjoy it at the right time for me, I give a better experience that way, I'm at my best and most energetic. 

At the end of the day, I have just as much respect for you as most do for me.  What we put out into the world comes back to us.

Have a blessed day,

Becca Blossoms